Are relationships that important?

Are relationships everything in life? Be it relationships from family, friends and partners. Sometimes we get too involve in solving our relationship problems, we haven't really got the time to slow our pace down and look at what the world has for us. To me, relationship are important, but definitely not everything.

Let's just start of with the basic. Friends. You spend almost half of your time with friends in school. Sometime they get on your nerves so badly, you feel that they are no longer important, no longer someone you care for. But wait, we shouldn't think in a moment of anger. But reflect upon the past. Friends are very important, indeed. They are your pillar of strength, someone you can talk to when your parents cannot relate to your problems. We show or care and help not hoping to get anything in return. We help and care with a sincere heart.

Best friends do the silliest things together without feeling embarrassed. Seeing how best friends are so close together, this doesn't come easily. It isn't a overnight thing, but an accumulation of years. You tolerate with their attitude, accept their weakness and definitely ignore their flaws. It is not easy to maintain a good relationship between friends, especially when your are no longer in the same class/ school. New one comes, but this doesn't mean the old one goes. Face reality, some people just get too overly obsessed with making new friends, they neglect the old ones that have always been there. It's just simply heartbreaking.

Best friends later move on to becoming 'sisters'. They share their problems without hiding any truth. They know you're sad even without spelling it out. That's how far the relationship of friends can last. Treasure your friends, before its too late.

Secondly, boy girl relationships. I've always wanted a guy best friend. Someone that dotes on your like his sister, care for you like his girlfriend and defend you in almost everything. Perfection. Its hard to believe any thing like this actually exist. When the boy girl relationship comes into the picture, friendship automatically disappear. Don't misunderstand me. What i mean is 'puppy love'. You love at this moment, and in the next, no.

Breakups, patch. oh yes whatever. one moment you are happy and the next moment, you act like world's ending in an hour time. We are so into such relationships, we take them too seriously, and in the end? Disappointments. Over and over again. And what happens after breakups? Hatred. Ain't you tired of this cycle. One that nobody will ever be satisfied with.

Nothing last forever, not even your pain and sadness. Move on. Don't waste your time over someone that has already forgotten about your existence. Someone that has already found their own path of happiness. No point. If they moved on so quickly, it just shows how they haven't actually cared in the beginning. The reality, its just to harsh and cruel. But life still go on.

So yup, be happy. Although im not exactly happy every single time. I mean everyone face their own problems. You just got to learn from it and never make the same mistake again.

Wait, don't judge what i blog. I'm not trying to be a love/friends/relationship expert. I'm just sharing what I've learnt in my Friday lessons. :)